Good Morning Sunshine! Why blog?

Why blog?

Why Blog? Because it is a way to convey ideas. It is a way to have a conversation if others respond. It is a way to facilitate those ideas and explore them.

I feel what bloggers have to say and how makes life interesting.

It means I am not alone in how I think and feel! At this time of life, I want to find out what others think and share what I think of this new territory.

I love writing and research. I love my art form. I want to be a part of change and help others. No one is totally alone. We just need to reach out. Staying confined is not a happy life.

I am interested in what others do about suddenly being alone without their partner.

Exploring what people do after their partner dies is interesting to me because I want life to feel good again and I have things in the works that I want to continue with. What I had knowledge of is that it is supposed to be awful. Well, it is to some extent. Your are suddenly alone.

Some of it is if the marriage was a good one or a bad one. Mine was a very good one. So I asked myself what can I take away from my experience with Thomas. I know what it’s like to be very loved. I know what it was to be trusted in and respected for who I am. I grew because of my relationship with Thomas. I took care of our financial needs, and still can mine. Confidence and knowing how to have security are in my ballpark! I know how to research and ask questions. I am learning how to reach out and be a part of other things. It is indeed how we look at things that allows us happiness without the one we love. There is a place in my head and heart for Thomas and a place for the sadness. I will always have an emotional trigger because to be so loved should hurt! I am grateful for my life with Thomas.

What’s next? I don’t know, nor should we want to I feel. I am all for surprises. I know I can handle whatever it is! How? Why? Because I am older and wiser at this point. I have continued to learn my way forward. What was important has changed and will continue to change. Life does move forward.

The more happiness I bring into my life through what I experience, and chose what I want….the more my brain seeks these things out! The triggers are finding happiness over what used to be. I am replacing old with new! Believing what is so is up to you. Belief is where what gets triggered starts. I want to live a mindful life and not let my mind lead me around. Giving thought just a glance and thinking nope! Doing something and thinking something else will get you there!

Best wishes! Pejj

By Pejj Nunes

I live in Southern Maine. I am the owner of Anisette Studios. My website is Here you can view and purchase Shibui, sign up for my newsletters, blog, and read articles about Shibui Found Image Art. Patrons get great deals several times a year and special items at times. My site makes it easy to contact me. My primary art form is Shibui Found Image Art. Shibui begins with action art and stems from the imagination. It is like seeing something in the clouds or solving a puzzle. Its creative process has its own rules and requires what I call reverse engineering due to a lack of an understructure and purely out of the imagination. In addition to those who patron me, my target groups are those who use art therapy. I will soon be teaching live. Contact me if you would like to learn live. I use Zoom. I request that although my art, other images, and what I write is now published by me here on WordPress; I do ask you do not to use my artwork, poetry, or the information about Shibui Found Image Art without my permission. I am quite available to make such requests. I wish to share the following: The existentialist philosopher Simone de Beauvoir wrote a book called The Ethics of Ambiguity. In it, she lays out a guiding ethic in response to the philosophy of existentialism. It might be somewhat familiar to you already. She writes, “To will oneself free is also to will others free. This will is not an abstract formula. It points out to each person concrete action to be achieved.” Best wishes to all! Have good times and keep safe! Pejj

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