Sexy? I have been thinking about this, and about all of a sudden being single, and then being the older self! Like others, I see some dam nice pictures of other older women, Recently, I joined a women’s group on Facebook; the group is full of older women talking about their lives, and what being older means for them. I love the dialogue of The Ethel groups.
The thing about being sexy and older, I think it remains the same thing as it was when I was younger. I have not changed, only in the outer shell. I am not interested in younger men. There are men my age. Dressing so I feel good about my appearance is simply something I will do.
Aging metamorphosizes everyone. When it was Thomas and me, we did it together. We still dressed up when going out. Otherwise, we were laid back.
Not crazy about wrinkles, extra skin, etc. But it’s a result of what happened to my body. Here I am! Battle scares and all. I figure if I do meet someone someday, he will like me for who I am. I think a good friendship can lead to loving deeper. I am not looking for this kind of relationship now. I want to become a new version of myself at this time.
I think who we are is important. How we carry ourselves. These things are what makes someone attractive to me, and even sexy. I assume that this feeling is the same for others.
Just because were become older, does not mean how we think changes.
I reason that Thomas told me I was beautiful and sexy! And he made me feel very loved! The way he showed me he loved me made me feel sexy. I had never flirted so much in my life until I had Thomas in my life! His shy self made me tease him badly. It made him go pink to be called cute little nick names____ LOL It might happen again. Who knows! LOL A older Italian gentleman told me once, “Don’r go looking! Love will come! When you least expect it! It did! I was not looking and God or cupids! I had Thomas come into my life!
May all you beautiful older ladies shine with your own beauty! It’s true! Beauty comes from within! It is who we are!
Best wishes! Pejj