Good Morning Sunshine!

A Time to embrace, and a time to refrain form embracing___”

Sun rise, new beginning to the day. To be embraced.

“How often in the early morn___when all the world is new____I stand and gaze at the rising sun___and my thoughts will turn to you____ Are you happy? Is life worthwhile?___Are your hours too few?____Do you mind when the day is done____that your dreams have not come true?____Do you weary of all the things____that life demands each day?____Can you find a quiet place____apart in which to pray? (Or meditate?) And do you leave time____between morn and night____some time just to be free?____But more than that I want to ask____do you ever think of me?”

Have you ever thought of some of these thoughts? I have thought of a number of people, for various reasons both friends and family. I reach out if something is not happening to me. Such as with this time of grieving. I was glad to read someones else need for not always interacting with others, even though they are well-intending, sometimes it does not help, you never know when it may happen. This grieving thing I felt I needed to pay attention to me. And give limited explanations about my feelings to those I could trust to understand. I can be a private person when it comes to myself. Trust is not an issue it simply knowing and honoring the self, respecting who I am. Giving time is the one thing anyone can do. And should do. I don’t like floundering all about in with how I feel. I understand logic and reasoning. Relying on yourself is not a bad thing as long as you do let others in, and reach out. There is a balance with all things. It’s nothing to do with not caring about others. For I do, have, I have been the caregiver many times. And for Thomas___that was the hardest I think. Because I had to hold it together and do what I must each time he has had a stroke, his heart operation, and then with advanced pulmonary fibrosis. So take care of yourself if you have a situation you’re dealing with. It will help you avoid the voice in the head that leads you to so emotional trauma. You don’t need to add to the emotions that hit you! That can mean deep depression. Self-talk is very important. When you grieve, it’s not easy to even think at first. You do feel all over the place. It has been a bot more than a year and I am just getting to the point where I can express my deep feelings. I kept expecting a Tsunami, well____not yet! Is all I can say. I may get hit for all I know! I feel I have inner strength. I am not paying to the voice that says, “Are you strong? How do you know? Well, I just feel I am, I have dealt with the crisis, I have been a caregiver, and when things happen I always pull my shit together and plop into a leader or helper role. I remind myself of these things. I have a teenager to take care of because he is here, no one else is going to do the day-to-day things nor the budget. If I don’t want my dreams to fall apart, I need to find my center that is where the strength is.

I am an observer of myself as much as I am of others and the world around me. If you take on the writer’s or a poet’s mind this is how you are. If you are curious about what it means to be human___your an observer. The world is a very complex and interesting place and we are a part of it. We need to think, we need to slow the merry-go-round down so we can step off if need be; we do need to think about what we want life to be. Not just follow along and do what others do. If it becomes a popular idea to jump off a tall building are you going to go? I think people have forgotten to think about their words and actions and be accountable towards themselves and others. We measure time, everything can only take so long or it shouldn’t be done? Well anyway. There is a time to embrace life and the people in it, and a time when to re-frame from embracing, simply to take the time to think what you are embracing.

Best wishes! Pejj Nunes

10/24/2021

By Pejj Nunes

I live in Southern Maine. I am the owner of Anisette Studios. My website is https://www.anisettestudios.com/ Here you can view and purchase Shibui, sign up for my newsletters, blog, and read articles about Shibui Found Image Art. Patrons get great deals several times a year and special items at times. My site makes it easy to contact me. My primary art form is Shibui Found Image Art. Shibui begins with action art and stems from the imagination. It is like seeing something in the clouds or solving a puzzle. Its creative process has its own rules and requires what I call reverse engineering due to a lack of an understructure and purely out of the imagination. In addition to those who patron me, my target groups are those who use art therapy. I will soon be teaching live. Contact me if you would like to learn live. I use Zoom. I request that although my art, other images, and what I write is now published by me here on WordPress; I do ask you do not to use my artwork, poetry, or the information about Shibui Found Image Art without my permission. I am quite available to make such requests. I wish to share the following: The existentialist philosopher Simone de Beauvoir wrote a book called The Ethics of Ambiguity. In it, she lays out a guiding ethic in response to the philosophy of existentialism. It might be somewhat familiar to you already. She writes, “To will oneself free is also to will others free. This will is not an abstract formula. It points out to each person concrete action to be achieved.” Best wishes to all! Have good times and keep safe! Pejj

1 comment

  1. 💎 – Diamond Hard 💎

    💎 As an Ex-OverCareTaker EveryOne I AM “Embracing” Being Self-Ish; it may Sound Paradoxical EveryBody but The More Selfish We ARE The Better We Serve Others…in Brief, this is why Selfishness Makes Sense; it’s Better to Wait To Be Asked for Assistance rather than Foist Assistance on Others that May Well NOT!!! Be Appreciated and Lead to Resentment or Even Worse…basically “NO!!!” is NOT!!! a Bad, Dirty, Curse/Swear Word, while Waiting To Be Asked Keeps The Peace; because Doing Too Much (Spoiling) is as Bad as Doing Too Little (Neglect) as “Balance” is indeed The Key…ergo, it’s Definitely ALL About CoOperation NOT!!! CoDependency; so, ALL, please THINK!!! Carefully Before Offering Any UnSolicited Advice and/or Assistance

    💎 – Diamond Hard – 💎

    …💎💎💎…

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